Build with Blocks

Remember when you thought stepping on a LEGO was the worst pain imaginable? Welcome to the world of block-building, where the living room transforms into a minefield and your kid suddenly becomes a tiny architect with a vision (and zero regard for structural integrity). If you’re looking for a way to sneak in learning while pretending you’re ‘just playing,’ this is your jam—bonus points if you can build a tower taller than your dignity after a sleepless night.

Building with blocks fires up the brain’s spatial reasoning circuits, boosts creativity, and lays down the neural groundwork for early math skills—think patterns, balance, and even a dash of physics (hello, gravity!). For parents, it’s a sneaky way to bond and model problem-solving, while your kiddo’s confidence grows with every block stacked (and, let’s be honest, every dramatic crash).

How to do it

  • Begin by dumping out a manageable number of blocks. Avoid emptying the entire bin unless you’re prepared for an extensive cleanup later.

  • Sit with your child and start stacking the blocks together. Narrate your actions as you build—say things like, “Let’s make a bridge!” or “How tall can we go?” This helps engage your child and models creative thinking.

  • Encourage your child to try their own ideas, even if it leads to several (or many) collapses. Letting them experiment builds confidence and problem-solving skills.

  • Ask open-ended questions such as, “What happens if we put the big block on top?” This invites your child to think critically and make predictions.

  • When the blocks inevitably fall, model calm curiosity. Say something like, “Whoa, that fell! Should we try again?” This shows your child that mistakes are part of learning and can be fun to explore together.

Tips:

  • Keep the play area clear to avoid tripping over scattered blocks.
  • Celebrate creative structures, no matter how wobbly.
  • Use descriptive language to expand your child’s vocabulary.
  • Take turns building to encourage cooperation and patience.

After you finish your morning coffee (or whatever lukewarm beverage you’re pretending is coffee).

Sit down and stack just two blocks with your child.
Give yourself a silent high-five and say, ‘Look at us, future architects!’
Put a small basket of blocks in the main play area, within easy reach (and out of foot-stabbing range).

Whenever your child starts pulling out toys and looks at you with that ‘play with me?’ face.

Join for one quick tower (even if it’s just three blocks tall).
Cheer ‘Ta-da!’ (bonus points for jazz hands) and snap a quick photo of the masterpiece.
Clear a small, dedicated ‘build zone’ on a table or mat—no shoes, no snacks, just blocks.

Right after tidying up toys in the evening.

Build a silly shape or creature together using just the special blocks.
Make up a goofy name for your creation and do a little victory dance.
Sort out a few special, unique blocks (the ones with wheels or funny shapes) and keep them in a separate cup.